So its been a week that's all i can say that is the reason i don't really write that much i find it weird because i been using that pen and paper more then just typing things. But anyways the last few weeks i have been learning a lot of inspirational facts!!! Of course i am dying to share because it wouldn't be I if i wouldn't =)
"Please all and you will soon please none. - Aesop (c.620-560 BC)"
First of all WE LIVE FOR OURSELVES!!!! Seems like i have to drill that not only into my head but others as well!!! A big person that does not do that i would have to say is my mom she is constantly doing for others but not her self !! It kills me because although god will look and see what you have done for his children but he will also see that you haven't done anything for yourself and of course you cant help people if you cant help yourself. I no that may sound a little selfish but it is the truth, i couldn't get over someone because i wasn't sure how to love myself, respect myself and so on. Now that i have finally caught that trait and learned to love myself unconditionally i can love whomever i please. Speaking of LOVE, it is a death trap =) seems like you can never leave that pathway its hard (very) but you learn to once you realize the true meaning of it. I swear i am an old lady stuck in a young person's body because how can i tell someone how and what love is when maybe i have never felt it. High school "LOVE" obviously is not true love better yet is puppy love that beginning stage that feeling that everyone wants to feel so god gives us this little dose of it and some people take it the correct way some of us don't?! It is a choice that we all have to make. So lets say you are obligated to please a person you LOVE?! Do you think that by pleasing that person that is true love? Love at least to some does not cost a thing at least it shouldn't a lot of things in life have no means of being charged but they are because they have became a need and smart business people have learned to tax it. Anyways what i am trying to say is live your life first and then finally try to take on someone Else's problems because once you try to take on something else and your own unfinished business it results in way worst things then you could ever imagine. So when the quote says please all and you will soon please none it is saying do for yourself first because that is the person that matters the most then once your done with that allow your self to please others and you will find that all your blessings will be accounted for and NEVER ask or think for anything in return allow it to take time and the more you ask the longer it will take if it will even come.... Good night Quote is from wiseoldsayings.com
Tuesday, October 6, 2009
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
A Breath away
Hello... Last week was beyond busy and crazy and hectic and it went by very quick i no for a fact this one will be as well and I'm happy in a way but then again time is ticking and weeks are feeling like days and months are feeling like weeks. Summer went by so quickly i guess because i wasn't doing exactly what I'm suppose to and that nobody but my fault... Now that school is in and it is fall i have so much to catch up on i have so many ideas and thoughts and i am just jam packed .... Also i am starting a new club called "BIG BROTHERS BIG SISTERS DIVINE"... Anyways it was a lot of quotes i was thinking about today but i just choose this one....
"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away - unknown"
So like i said summer went by so quickly and i had to of had so many breath takes and i had a few breaths away.... I find it funny because luck of a relationship seems to be negative on my side... Seems like everyone wants every thing nobody cares about anybody anymore. People are cold hearted and don't have no type of feeling at all when it comes to others. I find myself doing the same thing at times and then i quickly jump back and something hits me and says what are you doing....Have you ever wanted something or someone so bad but they were not in your reach and you tried everything you could to try to get it or that person and you always ended up short... Well that has been me for quite a while every time i think i can finally exhale everything and be solid happy someone or something gets in my way.... Some people say don't let people get in your way and even the pastor said its always going to be that one person or thing that stands in your way and you just have to overcome them... Don't let them get to you but what if they constantly bug??? You get the power to either say something or just ignore it but then your happiness is either put on hold or gone forever.. I find it funny a few people have done that to me, walked all over me and guess what I'm still the one hurt at the end of the night... Anyways what I'm trying to say is when you find something that makes you happy or smile or lightens your day you should keep it and fight for it UNLESS you pray to god and he shows you that maybe this just is not for you.... God will always tell you the answer like i have been saying it may not be right then and there but you will see it in flying colors... So when the quote says life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away... they are trying to tell you stop stressing, stop worrying, stop going through the worst things of life and start doing things in your life that takes your breath away so much where you have to gasp for ...Pray to god and ask him what is really going to take your breath away because a lot of us don't no it at all but then again if you do then stop exhaling negative and inhale positive and exhale it as well..... Quote from wiseoldsayings.com
"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away - unknown"
So like i said summer went by so quickly and i had to of had so many breath takes and i had a few breaths away.... I find it funny because luck of a relationship seems to be negative on my side... Seems like everyone wants every thing nobody cares about anybody anymore. People are cold hearted and don't have no type of feeling at all when it comes to others. I find myself doing the same thing at times and then i quickly jump back and something hits me and says what are you doing....Have you ever wanted something or someone so bad but they were not in your reach and you tried everything you could to try to get it or that person and you always ended up short... Well that has been me for quite a while every time i think i can finally exhale everything and be solid happy someone or something gets in my way.... Some people say don't let people get in your way and even the pastor said its always going to be that one person or thing that stands in your way and you just have to overcome them... Don't let them get to you but what if they constantly bug??? You get the power to either say something or just ignore it but then your happiness is either put on hold or gone forever.. I find it funny a few people have done that to me, walked all over me and guess what I'm still the one hurt at the end of the night... Anyways what I'm trying to say is when you find something that makes you happy or smile or lightens your day you should keep it and fight for it UNLESS you pray to god and he shows you that maybe this just is not for you.... God will always tell you the answer like i have been saying it may not be right then and there but you will see it in flying colors... So when the quote says life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away... they are trying to tell you stop stressing, stop worrying, stop going through the worst things of life and start doing things in your life that takes your breath away so much where you have to gasp for ...Pray to god and ask him what is really going to take your breath away because a lot of us don't no it at all but then again if you do then stop exhaling negative and inhale positive and exhale it as well..... Quote from wiseoldsayings.com
Monday, September 21, 2009
Kindness =)
"Kind words are short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless. - Mother Teresa (1910-1997)"
So this quote was very significant to me and should be to others! Just like i said in a few other posts ago when you ask people how they are doing you can do a whole lot!!! Well this falls in the same category as well. It is so easy to say oh my you look nice etc etc but what you say has a big effect on that person imagine you just saying nice shoes it sticks with them that whole day and they tell all there friends and family etc. I no there has been a day when someone has really made you feel so good just by them saying the simplest things in the world !!! A kind word can go a long place. Although i no us girls are tired of hearing the same line it may make someone feel like a queen!! So don't ever stop telling a person good things... Also i went to church this past Sunday and it was fantastic the main key he was trying to get at is that although there are a lot of "whoa's " in your life you can keep on going. Like say for instance you are doing some kind of Good and that one person just comes to tell you that you owe like 1000 dollars in debt just for example now picture yourself going from greatest feeling in the world to saddest person on earth. That's when a whoa comes in your life. Simple people make our lives so much worst because although they can take the worst news in the world a lot of us cant and by that person telling us the worst news it enters a dent into our lives that its hard to overcome and put that dent back in place!!! But we will someday learn that although truth hurts and is good to tell but some people cant handle the truth it may make you feel better but what about that person feelings they may can hide it very good but you don't no how hard it is to let go of bad news!!! Anyhow the last couple of days have been very busy senior year is no joke!!! Classes, work , activities this debutante i believe is a blessing but not the financial part it is killing me =( .... I think I'm pretty content with everything else in my life i actually can say that i am happy with the people in my life and don't want to let them go... I didn't never think this day would come again at all but feelings have became official now =/ lol any who.... Thank god for what you have and not what you don't have because you never no what you don't have may be coming shortly and you wouldn't even no , Pray , love, and obey and you will forever live in peace =)...Quote from wiseoldsayings.com
So this quote was very significant to me and should be to others! Just like i said in a few other posts ago when you ask people how they are doing you can do a whole lot!!! Well this falls in the same category as well. It is so easy to say oh my you look nice etc etc but what you say has a big effect on that person imagine you just saying nice shoes it sticks with them that whole day and they tell all there friends and family etc. I no there has been a day when someone has really made you feel so good just by them saying the simplest things in the world !!! A kind word can go a long place. Although i no us girls are tired of hearing the same line it may make someone feel like a queen!! So don't ever stop telling a person good things... Also i went to church this past Sunday and it was fantastic the main key he was trying to get at is that although there are a lot of "whoa's " in your life you can keep on going. Like say for instance you are doing some kind of Good and that one person just comes to tell you that you owe like 1000 dollars in debt just for example now picture yourself going from greatest feeling in the world to saddest person on earth. That's when a whoa comes in your life. Simple people make our lives so much worst because although they can take the worst news in the world a lot of us cant and by that person telling us the worst news it enters a dent into our lives that its hard to overcome and put that dent back in place!!! But we will someday learn that although truth hurts and is good to tell but some people cant handle the truth it may make you feel better but what about that person feelings they may can hide it very good but you don't no how hard it is to let go of bad news!!! Anyhow the last couple of days have been very busy senior year is no joke!!! Classes, work , activities this debutante i believe is a blessing but not the financial part it is killing me =( .... I think I'm pretty content with everything else in my life i actually can say that i am happy with the people in my life and don't want to let them go... I didn't never think this day would come again at all but feelings have became official now =/ lol any who.... Thank god for what you have and not what you don't have because you never no what you don't have may be coming shortly and you wouldn't even no , Pray , love, and obey and you will forever live in peace =)...Quote from wiseoldsayings.com
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
Planning?!
"Just because something doesn't do what you planned it to do, doesn't mean it's useless. - Thomas Edison (1847-1931)"
So the J's only had a few and it seemed as though this one pretty much stood out the most.... You can actually reference this quote in so many ways. Lets say a relationship =) So you have planned and hoped and put time and energy in it but once you finally get into the relationship you feel as though it really was useless. Like your not going to go any where with it and just was pointless from the get go. Well you never no, you may have stalled for so long for a reason it maybe didn't work out for so many reasons such as you guys just need to be friends, god doesn't see this person making a difference in your life, just not meant to be, or better yet the patience needs to still be in effect and that person is meant for you in the near future?! Its so many more reasons but that's just to name the few. Lets put it in a different perspective what if this something that you have been planning for is a party or an event. You have spent all your time trying to put everything together and perfect it and it turns out a disaster , you may think it was so useless but really it wasn't , simple because you learned a valuable lesson through it you no what to do differently next time?! So when the quote says just because something doesn't do what you planned it to do, doesn't mean it's useless they are basically saying do what makes you happy plan things etc in the long run you will learn the lesson you will see that you had to go through that to receive the message , god will show you , you just have to have PATIENCE!!!.... Quote from wiseoldsayings.com
So the J's only had a few and it seemed as though this one pretty much stood out the most.... You can actually reference this quote in so many ways. Lets say a relationship =) So you have planned and hoped and put time and energy in it but once you finally get into the relationship you feel as though it really was useless. Like your not going to go any where with it and just was pointless from the get go. Well you never no, you may have stalled for so long for a reason it maybe didn't work out for so many reasons such as you guys just need to be friends, god doesn't see this person making a difference in your life, just not meant to be, or better yet the patience needs to still be in effect and that person is meant for you in the near future?! Its so many more reasons but that's just to name the few. Lets put it in a different perspective what if this something that you have been planning for is a party or an event. You have spent all your time trying to put everything together and perfect it and it turns out a disaster , you may think it was so useless but really it wasn't , simple because you learned a valuable lesson through it you no what to do differently next time?! So when the quote says just because something doesn't do what you planned it to do, doesn't mean it's useless they are basically saying do what makes you happy plan things etc in the long run you will learn the lesson you will see that you had to go through that to receive the message , god will show you , you just have to have PATIENCE!!!.... Quote from wiseoldsayings.com
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
L-I-F-E
So i thought that tonight was pretty the mark of me having to live on my own. Im already independent enough i worry about my own things i basically buy what i need and want because i have a job. I make my own marks in my life i teach myself the values of life i pray as much as i can until i just fall short or weak! Have you ever felt like what you do for yourself is never enough?! its one thing to be doing for others and it not be enough but for your self is way to much ! Have you ever been abused so bad that your days seem so short that the only thing left to do is give up? What if when you do give up there are ways where you could of thought twice about things... Have you ever lost someone in your life you thought meant the world to you and you have nobody to call on so you just end up doing things that are not right... Well i think i have conquered that as much as i could by writting what i feel now . When i feel that i am at my weakness i write i think when i am weak thats what makes me a better writer ... I dont usually write just for someone else i write what is on my mind hoping that it will uplift and help people out as much as it helps me out. Seems as though i have to write to teach myself things although in my mind i no from right and wrong but you cant tell yourself a thousand times something until it finally becomes something you have to do... So0o much is on my mind and im just going to take my shower and do a little bit of homework and say the strongest prayer and go to sleep !!!! Maybe i will write tommorow with a quote =/
Monday, September 14, 2009
Way too heavy!!!
So when i say all of this chaos is killing me don't bother to listen because it is actually making me stronger and a better person!!! Wow over the course of the week so much has changed from my heart to my soul to my brain?! I will use a quote today but first i want to talk about what is on my mind first!!!! I went to church this last Sunday and when i say it was uplifting i mean it... I no that i always say that I'm going to delete people out of my life well finally i have made the initiative to do it . alot didn't think i could but i didn't do it on my own... So wow these people on the earth are way to funny... I had this boy tell me that I'm the Sh... haha i texted back and said haha thanks and he replies and says why don't you act like it be confident i replied happily saying i think better yet i know i am a great person but i don't have to stress it to people i don't have to flaunt it just as long as i no that i am something and someone that's all that's going to matter in the long run am i right?! you should think the same way!!! It kills me when girls and boys says I'M BETTER THEN YOU or I'm steps ahead of you etc who are you to say that you are... you maybe have this more or that more than me but i promise we are equal i will never put anyone down because i am not perfect and nobody else is in this world god molded us into these sculptures and he made us a certain way he gave us flaws to overcome and think and Noe that its way beyond looks its more of whats inside ... Because when you leave this world appearance wont matter at all only what you have left in people's hearts... So don't tell me I'm pretty or beautiful its great to hear it here and there but rather i love to hear you have a great personality you are a great person at heart and that will make my day =) anyhow.... Work has been great its alot of sticky fingers in this world ... I always wonder why people stare at you when your shopping (black people) because its still some out there that obviously are up to no good and still give us all a bad name =( if you cant afford it then you don't need it... !!!! Uhm lets see school is very good right now my challenging classes have a lot of work and I'm up for it i finally have my life scheduled out and it feels great i don't have to worry about to late or missing things etc. Senior year is going to be the best year =).... Debutante things are going okay this is definably a subject matter that takes a lot out of you but I'm willing to take on the hard and risky task!!! Relationship status as of now... Hahah i find it funny when one person tells you this big piece of advice but when someone tells you the exact same thing and its your FATHER that's when you no something means business. Lately i have been told that boys are always going to be here so don't even stress about them they will do nothing but pull me down well finally i agree . I'm still going to have my friends and talk to them every now and then but i also need to respect myself as a busy young lady ... So that's about it on the relationship status! So any who I'm hoping that although this is a lot about me you will get a lot out of it as well!!! Now time for the quote!!!
"If you think your bundle of clothes too heavy, try picking up your neighbor's. - Virgin Islander (on comparable worth)"
So i chose this one because people always including me think that were the only people who go through the worst things in life well little do you no your neighbor could be going through just as much or even more and it sucks to say that so never think your alone in this world always ask questions and always ask people how they are doing even if they look like they are in the worst mood you never no how much you will affect there day just by saying how are you doing today? When people tend to talk to me when I'm mad i tend to cry because it hits me in a soft place... And especially when I'm mad they say haha i love this one .... "Smile you will live longer" Just by saying that you cant help but smile because you want to live longer. Recently this man killed his self i no we all go through problems and some of us can take them better then others but you should never overwhelm yourself with so much that you cant take it anymore and you have to jump off the edge of the world =( So any who when the quote says if you think your bundle of clothes too heavy, try picking up your neighbor's... They are basically saying appreciate every little thing in your life and stop telling god what's so bad in your life and start thanking him for what's right..... Quote from wiseoldsayings.com
"If you think your bundle of clothes too heavy, try picking up your neighbor's. - Virgin Islander (on comparable worth)"
So i chose this one because people always including me think that were the only people who go through the worst things in life well little do you no your neighbor could be going through just as much or even more and it sucks to say that so never think your alone in this world always ask questions and always ask people how they are doing even if they look like they are in the worst mood you never no how much you will affect there day just by saying how are you doing today? When people tend to talk to me when I'm mad i tend to cry because it hits me in a soft place... And especially when I'm mad they say haha i love this one .... "Smile you will live longer" Just by saying that you cant help but smile because you want to live longer. Recently this man killed his self i no we all go through problems and some of us can take them better then others but you should never overwhelm yourself with so much that you cant take it anymore and you have to jump off the edge of the world =( So any who when the quote says if you think your bundle of clothes too heavy, try picking up your neighbor's... They are basically saying appreciate every little thing in your life and stop telling god what's so bad in your life and start thanking him for what's right..... Quote from wiseoldsayings.com
Tuesday, September 8, 2009
Think...
So its been a while i have been beyond busy but i guess not busy enough can i have a great day all day haha anyways this is a very true and great quote that kind of taught me a lesson as well!!! Your never old to learn more!!!
"He that would live in peace and at ease, must not speak all he knows, nor judge all he sees. - Ben Franklin (1706-1790)"
So i finally realize why its best that everything shouldnt be said, I no a lot of people including myself love to tell people whats on our minds and how we feel although its good in some situations but its bad in others... I remember last year around this time i was in peace of mind beyond peace actually i was living a wonderful life and i finally no what im doing wrong now.... I was at so much peace because i kept my mouth shut i wasnt talking about anyone i just kept all my thoughts to myself which today i have learned that i need to now but also i would see so many things wrong etc and i would keep alot of it to myself well i guess what people dont no wont hurt them and vice versa for yourself.... Things are always taken the wrong way on the computer in text messages or anything that you cant hear that person's expressions and feelings in there voice i am all for text sometimes but i will call someone in a quick second but enough about me. In general people of all generations tell you its healthier to get what you are feeling out but only in situations like relationships or friends or etc but its so much that you can get yourself into .... But basically when the quote says he that would live in peace and at ease,must not speak all he knows, nor judge all he sees . That is a quote that is basically self explantory and says what you should do if you would like peace and be at ease. Not everything that you feel is appropriate to be said also what you see may not always be what you think so i believe and what the quote says is keep your comments to yourself keep your sayings to yourself keep your thoughts to yourself in most situations you will no what is right and what is wrong its kind of a epihany that you get that hits you and says dont do it ya no well i think i could write more about this subject but my eyes are very much hurting so most likely i will continue this tommorow goodnight my loves..
"He that would live in peace and at ease, must not speak all he knows, nor judge all he sees. - Ben Franklin (1706-1790)"
So i finally realize why its best that everything shouldnt be said, I no a lot of people including myself love to tell people whats on our minds and how we feel although its good in some situations but its bad in others... I remember last year around this time i was in peace of mind beyond peace actually i was living a wonderful life and i finally no what im doing wrong now.... I was at so much peace because i kept my mouth shut i wasnt talking about anyone i just kept all my thoughts to myself which today i have learned that i need to now but also i would see so many things wrong etc and i would keep alot of it to myself well i guess what people dont no wont hurt them and vice versa for yourself.... Things are always taken the wrong way on the computer in text messages or anything that you cant hear that person's expressions and feelings in there voice i am all for text sometimes but i will call someone in a quick second but enough about me. In general people of all generations tell you its healthier to get what you are feeling out but only in situations like relationships or friends or etc but its so much that you can get yourself into .... But basically when the quote says he that would live in peace and at ease,must not speak all he knows, nor judge all he sees . That is a quote that is basically self explantory and says what you should do if you would like peace and be at ease. Not everything that you feel is appropriate to be said also what you see may not always be what you think so i believe and what the quote says is keep your comments to yourself keep your sayings to yourself keep your thoughts to yourself in most situations you will no what is right and what is wrong its kind of a epihany that you get that hits you and says dont do it ya no well i think i could write more about this subject but my eyes are very much hurting so most likely i will continue this tommorow goodnight my loves..
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