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Tuesday, October 6, 2009

Do unto your self FIRST!!!

So its been a week that's all i can say that is the reason i don't really write that much i find it weird because i been using that pen and paper more then just typing things. But anyways the last few weeks i have been learning a lot of inspirational facts!!! Of course i am dying to share because it wouldn't be I if i wouldn't =)
"Please all and you will soon please none. - Aesop (c.620-560 BC)"
First of all WE LIVE FOR OURSELVES!!!! Seems like i have to drill that not only into my head but others as well!!! A big person that does not do that i would have to say is my mom she is constantly doing for others but not her self !! It kills me because although god will look and see what you have done for his children but he will also see that you haven't done anything for yourself and of course you cant help people if you cant help yourself. I no that may sound a little selfish but it is the truth, i couldn't get over someone because i wasn't sure how to love myself, respect myself and so on. Now that i have finally caught that trait and learned to love myself unconditionally i can love whomever i please. Speaking of LOVE, it is a death trap =) seems like you can never leave that pathway its hard (very) but you learn to once you realize the true meaning of it. I swear i am an old lady stuck in a young person's body because how can i tell someone how and what love is when maybe i have never felt it. High school "LOVE" obviously is not true love better yet is puppy love that beginning stage that feeling that everyone wants to feel so god gives us this little dose of it and some people take it the correct way some of us don't?! It is a choice that we all have to make. So lets say you are obligated to please a person you LOVE?! Do you think that by pleasing that person that is true love? Love at least to some does not cost a thing at least it shouldn't a lot of things in life have no means of being charged but they are because they have became a need and smart business people have learned to tax it. Anyways what i am trying to say is live your life first and then finally try to take on someone Else's problems because once you try to take on something else and your own unfinished business it results in way worst things then you could ever imagine. So when the quote says please all and you will soon please none it is saying do for yourself first because that is the person that matters the most then once your done with that allow your self to please others and you will find that all your blessings will be accounted for and NEVER ask or think for anything in return allow it to take time and the more you ask the longer it will take if it will even come.... Good night Quote is from wiseoldsayings.com

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