Omg so0o wow this whole month has been hectic beyond hectic actually just stressful. Between work school college debutante and social life i cant even believe i still have the energy at night... So i have learned a few things since the last time i wrote up here. You cannot trust anybody but your family but even then they at times can not be trusted and you were put on this earth alone and seems thats how it should be kept. Anyways friends dont even understand the defintion anymore? Relationships they are on another planet then where i am from and further more life... cant even define it for others except myself... I also learned you can give someone the biggest advice and help them out but at the end of the day you wasted your sweet breath on telling a tree to move... People are going to do what they feel although you know what's best for them at times. You have to allow people to take trial and error before they actually learn the lesson... It took me a few times to actually learn these simple rules of life and now i can share them with you all.. Anyways i found a quote from a different site and i find it very comforting for my mood tonight!!!
"The minute you settle for less than you deserve, you get even less than you settled for.
Maureen Dowd, in 'New York Times' "
So i remember when i had standards and i guess i would try to make them out as a perfect boy but i never met this person still to this day. I figured my standards were too high so i was pretty lienant and settled for way less than i deserved... I guess thats why im having to pick up on my mistakes and faults now... which is fine with me because i learn from them... Now settling for less can be a good and bad. At times settling for less can be only enough that you can get at the time, sometimes getting less can turn into recieving more... you can always get less so you can make it more ... The quote kind of jeporadizes things... I make it into my words, personal issues i will go by which is i still dont have that number one person so i have settled with beyond numerous people that were my standards... i try to go by happiness and not care about the appearance because the apperance will only hold you for so long until someone else notices it, personality is a super plus! you can go far and live with certain people just by their personality ... Style is always a must for some people but clothes do not make a person at all... Just by judging someone by the way they dress does not take you far at all... You cannot judge a book by its cover at all... Although you can tell how they keep theirselves like hygiene which is a super duper big thing you will not want to go with someone who does not appreciate their body like keep it clean eg... brushing their teeth cleaning their bodies etc. but basically like the quote says the minute you settle for less than you deserve, you get even less than you settled for.....will finish tommorow!!!
Tuesday, November 24, 2009
Monday, November 9, 2009
Are you guys meant to be?
So i am so happy because not only have more people been interested but my life has been great as well Sunday was the best service i have heard since i have been a teen. I needed it or i wouldn't be feeling this way. Today was so great and what i prayed for god to give me strength in he gave weakness in the other =). I am not alone in this world and I'm glad... anyways this was a quote i saw on facebook, i thought it was mighty funny because i was feeling confused like i love this person so much but i could never picture being with him again.... Well here goes.... Thanks again for supporting me =)
"Just because two people are in love does not mean they are MEANT TO BE" Unknown
So i had a very big think today in my mind and i was just thinking about love and life.... Love is everywhere and there are so many kinds of love its hard not to say it... When i read this quote i had to explain myself, this is soo0o true. It is so many x's that i have that, that four letter word was used so lightly simply because once you have been in it once it does not want to end because it gives everyone that satisfaction of just breathing for a second. I was thinking about how many people i really love in this world... It is only a few but my first love i will always love him but not be IN LOVE with him for some odd reason i feel a huge gap between us. Like when we were In love i felt like i new him but now that i just have love for him i have no clue to describe him. That goes to show you people change so quickly.... My mom tells me a story all the time about my dad and how she could never be in love with simply because he hurt her so much... I think god puts us all through a lot of test with the ones we love and we will never no who passed what etc. Also i just learned this one fact. The people we want so bad but they may not want us and they push us away because we are being blinded of what we really need?! What we want is not always what we need. Say your in love with someone or you like someone and you guys argue all the time etc and you try to work it out so much but it does not click maybe god is trying to tell you something like the littlest person you would of ever thought cared the least about you may be the person your life depends on... Love & relationships are so much work.... But we were made to manage certain issues like that we need love our bodies depend on it whether it is from family friends boyfriend girlfriend... Anyways when the quote says just because two people are in love does not mean they are meant to be it is trying to tell us that it may feel right look right and even smell right but it is no where near close to what we need. Remember need goes before want. Also if your young then there is no rush in you finding that love. It may sound good and sometimes look good but it does not come with just happiness, sacrificing a lot and leaving your happiness at the door at times.... Anyways I'm so0o tired getting my hair done tomorrow yes... Plus spirit of Norfolk as well can't wait .... Have a blessed night toddles!
"Just because two people are in love does not mean they are MEANT TO BE" Unknown
So i had a very big think today in my mind and i was just thinking about love and life.... Love is everywhere and there are so many kinds of love its hard not to say it... When i read this quote i had to explain myself, this is soo0o true. It is so many x's that i have that, that four letter word was used so lightly simply because once you have been in it once it does not want to end because it gives everyone that satisfaction of just breathing for a second. I was thinking about how many people i really love in this world... It is only a few but my first love i will always love him but not be IN LOVE with him for some odd reason i feel a huge gap between us. Like when we were In love i felt like i new him but now that i just have love for him i have no clue to describe him. That goes to show you people change so quickly.... My mom tells me a story all the time about my dad and how she could never be in love with simply because he hurt her so much... I think god puts us all through a lot of test with the ones we love and we will never no who passed what etc. Also i just learned this one fact. The people we want so bad but they may not want us and they push us away because we are being blinded of what we really need?! What we want is not always what we need. Say your in love with someone or you like someone and you guys argue all the time etc and you try to work it out so much but it does not click maybe god is trying to tell you something like the littlest person you would of ever thought cared the least about you may be the person your life depends on... Love & relationships are so much work.... But we were made to manage certain issues like that we need love our bodies depend on it whether it is from family friends boyfriend girlfriend... Anyways when the quote says just because two people are in love does not mean they are meant to be it is trying to tell us that it may feel right look right and even smell right but it is no where near close to what we need. Remember need goes before want. Also if your young then there is no rush in you finding that love. It may sound good and sometimes look good but it does not come with just happiness, sacrificing a lot and leaving your happiness at the door at times.... Anyways I'm so0o tired getting my hair done tomorrow yes... Plus spirit of Norfolk as well can't wait .... Have a blessed night toddles!
Saturday, November 7, 2009
From Victories to the strength of another...
Well i attempted to write a few days ago but my tiredness takes the best of me... Lately as usual things seem to not go my way. I start to wonder is it a test I'm going through or is it just me putting this stress on myself. I have had the worst luck the last past two to three weeks. I hope that everything goes as planned this week because i have planned it for a while. Also seems like i need a serious change once again as usual!!! Not for anyone but myself.Anyways i didn't feel the need to get a quote but i will because i don't think i should spill every little thing out....
So wow there were so many great quotes but at this moment i choose to write about one ...
"We learn little from victory, much from defeat. - Japanese (on success and failure)"
So i learned this on my own luckily, When i win prizes or anything in life i seem to ignore the true meaning of why i won it or who helped me or even why i won it. I think because that success blinds our true thoughts. When we lose a race or anything we learn why we loss, why we could win, who and why that person won. It is so many things that we take in effect when another wins but we see clearly the reasons why we didn't as oppose to if we did. It makes us try harder and make sure we excel next time. Anyway we put it defeat overpowers a victory any day, like they say you may have won a victory but the loser won the battle. The loser puts so much effort into a race or anything but the winner just wins the victory, you may not have won the prize but you have won the reasoning.... so when they say we learn little from victory, much from defeat they are telling us that regardless if we win or not we will always prevail either we are last or 2nd defeat will teach you so many more things rather then your victory ...... Next quote
"Who is strong? He that can conquer his bad habits. - Ben Franklin (1706-1790)"
Bad habits bad habits, So as i sit here listening to lauryn hill "i gotta find peace of mind" She states all the wrongs he and she has done in her life and she still can find the time to say she has peace of mind. It is really hard to find peace of mind in this society because everyday you hear someone has died or passed away how can you find that peace of mind when everything or everybody is standing at the world against you? Well put it this way she has another song titled " i get out" trust me it tells you every answer, if you cant do it on your own she says his holy name!!! anyway bad habits they are very hard to get rid of very very very hard to get rid of simply because its a habit lets take smoking for example whether it is cigarettes or a drug it pulls you in where you feel the need to need it.... It is a very bad habit to say no too. I never smoked so i cant say the pleasure it gives but i can say its something that is at the top of the list of a bad habit. When you can quit cold turkey on smoking and ignore the urges to smoke i believe you have conquered the strength of a human!!! Now lets say for example i as being a girl and my habit is allowing boys to get to me... I can say that is a really bad habit because any time they feel the need to need me they call on to me and i come =( i no not good at all when i finally find the courage to break that habit i will have conquered the strength of the strong... Bad habits are such a bad addiction but we cannot help it. There are so many addictions out there in the world and the one addiction that we all need is saying our savior's name and asking him for forgiveness in the sinful world... anyways when the quote says who is strong? he that conquers his bad habits is basically saying everyone has a bad habit but when you finally find the courage to stop that addiction congratulations you have conquered the strength of the strong.... i believe this is pretty much it for tonight i had a lot on my mind to write up here and in my journal. Well have a blessed night everyone the two quotes came from wiseoldsayings.com
So wow there were so many great quotes but at this moment i choose to write about one ...
"We learn little from victory, much from defeat. - Japanese (on success and failure)"
So i learned this on my own luckily, When i win prizes or anything in life i seem to ignore the true meaning of why i won it or who helped me or even why i won it. I think because that success blinds our true thoughts. When we lose a race or anything we learn why we loss, why we could win, who and why that person won. It is so many things that we take in effect when another wins but we see clearly the reasons why we didn't as oppose to if we did. It makes us try harder and make sure we excel next time. Anyway we put it defeat overpowers a victory any day, like they say you may have won a victory but the loser won the battle. The loser puts so much effort into a race or anything but the winner just wins the victory, you may not have won the prize but you have won the reasoning.... so when they say we learn little from victory, much from defeat they are telling us that regardless if we win or not we will always prevail either we are last or 2nd defeat will teach you so many more things rather then your victory ...... Next quote
"Who is strong? He that can conquer his bad habits. - Ben Franklin (1706-1790)"
Bad habits bad habits, So as i sit here listening to lauryn hill "i gotta find peace of mind" She states all the wrongs he and she has done in her life and she still can find the time to say she has peace of mind. It is really hard to find peace of mind in this society because everyday you hear someone has died or passed away how can you find that peace of mind when everything or everybody is standing at the world against you? Well put it this way she has another song titled " i get out" trust me it tells you every answer, if you cant do it on your own she says his holy name!!! anyway bad habits they are very hard to get rid of very very very hard to get rid of simply because its a habit lets take smoking for example whether it is cigarettes or a drug it pulls you in where you feel the need to need it.... It is a very bad habit to say no too. I never smoked so i cant say the pleasure it gives but i can say its something that is at the top of the list of a bad habit. When you can quit cold turkey on smoking and ignore the urges to smoke i believe you have conquered the strength of a human!!! Now lets say for example i as being a girl and my habit is allowing boys to get to me... I can say that is a really bad habit because any time they feel the need to need me they call on to me and i come =( i no not good at all when i finally find the courage to break that habit i will have conquered the strength of the strong... Bad habits are such a bad addiction but we cannot help it. There are so many addictions out there in the world and the one addiction that we all need is saying our savior's name and asking him for forgiveness in the sinful world... anyways when the quote says who is strong? he that conquers his bad habits is basically saying everyone has a bad habit but when you finally find the courage to stop that addiction congratulations you have conquered the strength of the strong.... i believe this is pretty much it for tonight i had a lot on my mind to write up here and in my journal. Well have a blessed night everyone the two quotes came from wiseoldsayings.com
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